
Helping People Create Change Since 2010
The First Step Is Recognition
Which of These Sounds Like You?
You can look like you have it all together and still know something needs to change.

Repeating patterns
You keep ending up in the same relationship dynamic, different person, same story.

Everyone Else First
You’re the strong one, the reliable one and your own needs always come last.

Facing Uncertainty
You know something needs to change, but fear of the unknown keeps you questioning what to do next.
Ways We Can Work Together

Relationship Coaching

Parent & Family Coaching
Meet Wendy
I Know What It’s Like To Feel Stuck
I know how confusing and lonely it can feel to look capable and put together on the outside while privately knowing that something isn’t working. I’ve had times in my own life when I felt stuck, disconnected from myself, and unsure how to change the patterns I kept repeating.
My life began to change when I stopped judging myself and trying to fix everything on the surface and became curious about what was really driving my choices and reactions. That experience is why I care so deeply about helping others understand themselves with more compassion and discover that real change is possible.
Since January 2010, I’ve worked with smart, capable people who are tired of people pleasing, over giving, second guessing themselves, shutting down, or reacting in ways they later regret. Together, we get underneath what is happening so you can understand yourself more clearly and begin making choices that feel more honest and true to you.
My approach is warm and loving, but also direct. I’m not here to fix you or tell you to “just think positive.” I’m here to listen deeply, help you see what you may not be able to see on your own, and support you in creating a life and relationships that feel more grounded, connected, and self led.
Get to the Root. Create Real Change.

Uncover
We uncover the beliefs and habits beneath the problem so you can stop repeating what no longer works and begin responding differently.
Client Stories
In Their Own Words
READY TO TALK?
Book Your Free Clarity Call
We’ll talk through what’s going on, what you’re hoping will be different, and whether working together feels like the right fit.
There’s no pressure or obligation, just an opportunity to see whether coaching with me feels right for you.
- 30 minutes; completely free
- Available globally by phone, Zoom, or WhatsApp
- International clients are welcome
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Common Questions
Questions About Working Together
Find answers to the questions I’m most often asked about coaching.
Still have a question? Get in touch.
What is the difference between life coaching and therapy?
Therapy is provided by licensed mental health professionals and may include diagnosing and treating mental health conditions. Coaching is not mental health treatment.
Coaching helps you get to the root of what’s keeping you stuck, uncover what you may not be able to see on your own, and figure out actionable steps that create real, lasting change in your life and relationships.
Some clients choose coaching on its own, while others work with a coach and therapist at the same time. It depends on the type of support that is most appropriate for you.
What happens on a Clarity Call?
A Clarity Call is a free 30-minute conversation where you can share what is going on, what you are struggling with, and what you would like to change. I will ask questions to better understand your situation, explain how I might approach working with you, and answer any questions you have.
There is no pressure or obligation. It is simply an opportunity for both of us to determine whether working together feels like the right fit
Do you work with clients outside the Seattle area?
Yes. I’m based in Redmond and work with clients throughout Seattle, Bellevue, and across the United States, as well as people around the world.
I currently coach clients in the UK, Germany, Australia, Portugal and Dubai. Sessions are available by phone, Zoom, or WhatsApp, so location is never a barrier.
How much does coaching cost?
Individual sessions are $300 for 75–90 minutes. For those who are committed to investing in transformation and changing old habits, I offer a 12-session package for $3,300, which works out to one session free.
We begin with a single session so we can experience working together and make sure we’re a good fit before you decide whether to make a longer commitment.
What experience and training do you have?
I have conducted more than 16,000 + coaching sessions since 2010. My training and studies include IFS-Informed Coaching, Advanced Relationship Training in Conscious Living through the Hendricks Institute, and Master Life Coach training with Martha Beck and Brooke Castillo.
I have also studied extensively with Peter Crone, Kasia Urbaniak, Byron Katie, Alison Armstrong, Terry Real, and Esther Perel. I draw from these different approaches based on what will be most useful for each client rather than applying the same method to everyone.
How do coaching sessions work?
I work one-on-one with clients in my office in Redmond, by phone, or through Zoom. The cadence is entirely up to you. Unlike therapy, where sessions are generally scheduled once a week, coaching does not require a fixed weekly schedule. The frequency is based on how quickly you process and integrate the material and how much support you feel you need.
Between sessions, you may reach out by email or text when a question, insight, or challenge comes up. The work is collaborative and flexible, based on what is up for you at the time of each session
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